We had two of our young grandchildren stay overnight with us this past
week, which means lots of non-stop giggling and laughing, so we really enjoy
spending time with them. They play well together and are as inseparable as a brother and sister
can be. But one of them, little 8 year old Jackie, suffers from severe asthma and
has to use a breathing machine every single day. His younger sister, Andie Rose,
cares deeply for him and constantly tries her best to make sure he is okay. Whenever
Jack is struggling she will come running to get us. Her love is so clearly obvious
that you can’t see it and not be affected by it.
Obviously being a child isn’t easy even under the best of circumstances. Young children
have to depend 100% on their parents to provide their every need, including
food, shelter and most importantly, love. If they have kind and loving parents
they will typically grow up to be good, kind, loving people. If they have
selfish, self-centered parents they may well adopt those traits as they grow
up. We have to remember that children are always looking to adults for examples
of how to act and more importantly how to react when facing tough situations.
Children want and need to learn from the adults in their lives, so we had
better remember that.
However, after watching Andie Rose care so deeply for her brother,
something occurred to me. If we slow down our own lives a little, and pay attention to the children
around us, we just might learn something back.
Quick Story - Jimmy was 9 when his mom told him his
little sister was sick and would die if she didn’t get a blood transfusion – and
Jimmy was one of the only people in the world who had the rare blood type
needed. Jimmy loved his sister and though he didn’t know what was involved,
agreed to give his blood.
On the appointed day, Jimmy was solemn,
but brave, when the nurse put the needle into his vein and began to drain his
blood. After a few minutes of watching the bag fill, he began to get scared.
Finally he asked the nurse, “How much longer will it be before I die?”
The nurse was shocked. “You’re not going
to die!” she said, and then she wept when she realized he thought he had to give
all his blood to save his sister.
Courage and the willingness to
sacrifice our own wants and needs to help others are two of the finest traits
we can ever teach our children. Speaking
of teaching, I am reminded of someone else who came to earth a very long time
ago for that very same purpose. May His example live forever in our hearts!
"And that's the real meaning of Christmas - Charlie Brown!" |
"And there were
shepherds abiding in the field, keeping watch over their flocks,
and
lo the angel of the lord came upon them and the glory of the lord
shone round about them, and they were sore afraid, and the angel said unto them,
fear not, for behold, I bring you good tidings of great joy, which shall be to all people.
For unto you is born this day in the city ofDavid , a savior who is Christ the Lord.
And suddenly there was with the angels a multitude of the heavenly hosts,
praising God and saying, Glory to God in the highest, and on earth -
peace, good will toward men."
shone round about them, and they were sore afraid, and the angel said unto them,
fear not, for behold, I bring you good tidings of great joy, which shall be to all people.
For unto you is born this day in the city of
And suddenly there was with the angels a multitude of the heavenly hosts,
praising God and saying, Glory to God in the highest, and on earth -
peace, good will toward men."
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